thanks 3! I get it. this process is very hard. I already had an absentee spouse for a very long time. Now its just that much more removed. Not sure how long I want to wait around, but we'll see...I guess its day to day. I can't thank you and all the others for the support. so glad I am here.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14