Paul - if you have any time frames in your mind you need to try to erase them as best you can. My H and I did something together shortly after BD. H said that we would do something again. It took him 5 months to ask me to see a movie. It was at lunch time and definitely did not feel like a date even though bit was nice. Nothing since that happened three weeks ago. Just be careful thinking that something will happen soon. When they say baby steps they mean really little tiny babu steps.