Oh one other comment...I told W on New years Day that she must ask me for another get together. she agreed but has not yet. Db coach reminded me that 10 days is a very short time for that to occur given the circumstances. But given the right conditions, the idea may grow in W's head and she'll get there. Patience
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14