Oh one other comment...I told W on New years Day that she must ask me for another get together. she agreed but has not yet. Db coach reminded me that 10 days is a very short time for that to occur given the circumstances. But given the right conditions, the idea may grow in W's head and she'll get there. Patience smile


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14