1. I struggle a lot with the "irretrievably broken" concept myself. But when you get down to it, if one person believes this is true, and is unwilling to work on the M, then it truly is irretrievably broken, is it not?
I do sort of agree with this and thought this myself, I know that is the view the court will take but I still don't believe it is irretrievable so it is very difficult to agree to.
Originally Posted By: melissag
Make sure you are making these decisions with your head and not your heart
Not so sure about this, I sometimes think heart should rule.
This is not about winning my wife back this is doing what feels is right for me, because of my core values maybe, but I think I might regret it if I didn't do what felt right to me.
Me: 34, Wife: 34 Son: 2 Married: 8, Together: 14 Wife moved out 8/25/2013 Divorce papers received 01/10/2014