I have been reading and reading and can't find any other stories similar to mine. Hopefully someone can offer advice for my sitch!
H told me he was unhappy 8/13. said he's "numb". I owned the complaints he had and started IC immediately and started changes . Things got better, but I intercepted a text to one of his friends that he was leaving me soon 12/13. He admitted his plan, ILYBNILWY speech, etc.
The next day he starts questioning his decision. A LOT of crying, wanted me to tell him what to do. I stayed relatively calm, told him he needed to decide for himself. He left to live with a friend the next day.
Saw him several days before Christmas, a lot of crying each time. He spent Christmas and New Years with his parents in FL. He came back last weekend and we had a 3 hour talk. This is the gist:
He has hope for US. Loves me more than he has ever loved another woman. We agreed to start having fun again- he called it dating, I did not.
We are still separated. I got the Post office notification that he changed his address today. I saw him yesterday and he told me he loved me.
WHAT DO I DOOOOOOO?????? Is there anyone out there who can relate to this?
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
