Defending the divorce means what exact? You want to fight it in the courts?
Yes pretty much.
She has filed for divorce on the grounds that there has been an irretrievable breakdown of marriage & unreasonable behaviour as well as some specific things she has claimed as unreasonable behaviour.
If I just sign it and agree to the divorce I see it that I would also be agreeing to these claims & I don't believe the marriage is irretrievable or that there has been any unreasonable behaviour.
Therefore I will defend the divorce and it will go to court I believe where she will have to put her case forward & possibly me put my case forward too.
Me: 34, Wife: 34 Son: 2 Married: 8, Together: 14 Wife moved out 8/25/2013 Divorce papers received 01/10/2014