I think this is a great idea Dawn. It will be good for you to rest and heal, away from H, without having him and his EA in your face all the time. My H is MLC-nice these days too, but I think the reason is he sees his dream coming true finally. You sound good and detached - I think that is what The Process does for us, gets us strong and content. Gets us liking us, and for me that is a foreign idea! You will be fine with what ever you decide to do
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17