Left behind buddy. That tickles me to no end. Seems many MLCr's have that same cast around them. I can imagine it does make it harder to break free of them. Mine had that - it wasn't pretty
Raine, I would think you'll be untrusting for a while with periods of untrusting in the future. Keep in mind, that's you and your things to deal with primarily. Certainly he caused the need for you to have to deal with it, but you are the one.
And no, you are not the first to piece things back together and go through these emotions. I think you'll find some good information in the piecing your marriage back together forums
There are also some good books about that subject. It does seem to happen enough that books can be sold about it. Kind of like MLC I suppose.
Glad to hear you are where you are, Raine. You've come a long way, baby! (but don't put that pack down yet; it's just over that next rise...)
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
