SM, it sounds like things are going well - I am happy for you!

I did want to point out one thing . . . it seems as though you are acting a bit patronizing here and there. Watch that.

Just because things are looking up doesn't mean you should stop DBing. And please don't keep score or get on a soap box with her. When she said her friends are coming out of the woodwork, tell her that's great. Have fun with your friends. Why do you need to point out that they left her side when she was in an A? Or that the only reason they are friends with her again is because she is back with you?

me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14