Hi reb, I remember you! How the heck are you?

You asked some great questions and I'm thinking about my reply. There is so much but it distills down into a few core ideas, I think. I'm distilling. smile

AlAnon, it works if you work it, just like everything else in life.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss