OMs, cycling, cakes and confusion Oh my Lord ;)

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Thanks MrBond. I couldn't have gotten to where I am as a person, without you and the rest of the people on here. I am FOREVER in debted to you all!

Im going to keep updating everyone on my sitch as it hopefully prgresses into something excellent.

Need opnions and advice. Innour chat, I told W that her habit of having all male friends was not acceptable and does not safeguard her heart from predators. She still doesn't really agree, although not as strongly as before all of this. When do I start pushing this? Or should I? I mean, its only been a couple weeks and she has set up dates with her girlfriends etc.. but she still has all these guy friends. It annoys me to no end.

Interesting point. Also during our chat, I had told her she had started losing some of her close friends because of the A as people were made very uncomfortable. They all know me and have been our friends throughout our 14 year journey together. But they were here friends mostly. She didnt agree....

Yesterday she said all her friends were coming out of the woodworks and calling her to see if she wants to do stuff again. When I comment that its because they distanced but are now more comfortable being around her, she went quiet. But then she said she stll doesn't see when they ever left her side. Are all people in an A that blind?!!