I saw you dropped in on my thread. I will try to catch up on your sitch soon. As far as today, slow down, breath and enjoy your kids. We always want things to move especially fast, so all of the hurt and negative feelings will go away.
One of the most important things you can do, is be an outstanding dad. Not only does it benefit your kids, but it is very attractive. I realize how difficult it is to focus on anything other than your W. Stay the course and things will slowly begin to fall into place.
Another thing I used to keep in mind, "fast is slow and slow is fast." Take your time to allow the harvest (your changes) to take root. When you changes are genuine and they are recognized as so, chances of bearing fruit increases significantly.
Take care, Ben
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
