New here, similar stories to everyone else...

[paul19510]

My W did the same things as you say above. Slept separately came and went as pleased and basically lived like a house guest. Even the kids were mad about it.
Despite my efforts to GAL and do other things she continued to drift away. I believe that ultimately, your spouse must choose you. I wrote that to her. I told her I could see how separately we had been living. I asked her if we could work together to change thst...She bolted.

Sometimes things have to run their course and nothing you say of do changes that. What I see now is that GAL and the other rules are for YOU. if your H takes note, great. If not, you're. Going to survive and get better. Keep reading and posting. I grow each time I do.