I have some thinking to do. I think I'll get that book labug.
3-you're right-thanks for illustrating the pros/cons
On the postive-had a great night with the kids. Went out to eat in town with my family. H family showed up at same place and we all had a good time. (H was at work) Saw lots of friends. Going to a retreat tomorrow with a girlfriend. Hoping for a peaceful weekend.
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014