I have some thinking to do. I think I'll get that book labug.

3-you're right-thanks for illustrating the pros/cons

On the postive-had a great night with the kids. Went out to eat in town with my family. H family showed up at same place and we all had a good time. (H was at work) Saw lots of friends. Going to a retreat tomorrow with a girlfriend. Hoping for a peaceful weekend.


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014