It is just a way to see if maybe she would start a conversation about anything or get up and retreat to the bedroom.
IMHO: If you do things because you hope for a reaction from W; then you pursue or likewise! If you sit down because you want to watch what’s on TV then do so, but if you sit down to examine Ws reactions - then don’t. Focus on you and what you want!
Just my 2c!
Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.