Yes it's OK, and the whole divorce is not your fault. It takes 2 to make a marriage work and 2 to break it.

Ask her to do it another time and set that time.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss