It was a brief conversation. He agreed that if someone left the house and it got nasty that it could affect the custody of the kids. I think what he said is that once a divorce was filed, we could draw up paperwork so that my wife and i could rotate out of the house.

With the paperwork, it wouldn't be possible to claim someone 'abandoned' the home. I need to spend $55 for a consultation (much cheaper than the jackass who charged $200/hour).

Still wondering why we are seemingly getting along. Wont take it to heart though.


me 41 w43
married 20 years
BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY....
4 kids, 21,18,8,6