I think for those of you who have the MLCer still around, it makes it harder to detach.
You said it! It has been a long and painful road, and I know it was harder with him here. I finally have reached a point where I can go on with my life, no matter what he is doing.
You sound very strong. Good to read.
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
