JonF I know you realize that wasnt the correct approach as definitely shows you have a long way to go on patience:)
Its not going to get any easier. But a good MC can make all the difference.
If I would have told my W what you said she would have definitely not showed up.
You are way ahead of her as far as working on yourself and who you are. You must remember that.


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it