Yes, I seem to do well and think I am making improvements for me "working on me, not on us" I was telling myself... and then he goes distant randomly and I fall apart and get depressed and clingy... I am still working out - but like today at work, couldn't focus at all.
Contacted a therapist today...
Me, 39. H, 35. 3 boys - 13, 11, 9 - 1 w/ multiple disabilities BD Dec 2012 Sort of a quasi in-house sep Nov 2013