Thank you for that.

Yes, I seem to do well and think I am making improvements for me "working on me, not on us" I was telling myself... and then he goes distant randomly and I fall apart and get depressed and clingy... I am still working out - but like today at work, couldn't focus at all.

Contacted a therapist today...


Me, 39. H, 35.
3 boys - 13, 11, 9 - 1 w/ multiple disabilities
BD Dec 2012
Sort of a quasi in-house sep Nov 2013