One other idea from me. I suffered from low T and that made me feel depressed and very ill. A check up isn't always a bad idea just to make sure he's. Felling ok physically.

You pretty much can't do anything right with a WAS. To them its all bad and you do it all wrong. Better to detach. GAL and begin to feel like you again. You don't need to live apart to do that. Go to the gym. Join a class. Mskenplans with a friend and go to a movie or dinner with them. Just tell H. I have plans for this evening and I'Ll be back at X time.

I'm not perfect. My current sitch is very young and we've actually separated and peiced before. Good luck and keep nposting.

Remember look at things tonmake you happy first. Small steps lead to bigger ones.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14