'' do not advocate that anyone stops standing until you are really really sure. Forever, you are SO right, it IS just like the vets promised, that when you are done, you'll know it. There will be no doubt in your mind. Until then, bust on, the process really really works!''
Yes, Linda! The process works for US!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
RL I am happy to hear the surgery went well :-) your post made me think of the song ' I can see clearly now the rain is gone... ' in so many more ways than just your eye surgery!
I love the lessons and life skills we have learned on this site.
I said this before and I want to say it again... You are a cool lady. I love reading your posts and admire you very much. I have a lot to learn from you. I wish you happiness and love.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
I'm very glad to read that your surgery was a success this time around.
As for your h, I'm glad he's going to complete all of those MLC projects before he heads off to Russia.
Take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thanks Job! well that's his plan, anyway. We'll see. He might get MLC-distracted by something else first. But I figured it would be worth it to have him stay here and do the fence especially. Although I guess I could always hire some handy man to put up the last 4 or 5 sections LOL.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
I do not advocate that anyone stops standing until you are really really sure. Forever, you are SO right, it IS just like the vets promised, that when you are done, you'll know it. There will be no doubt in your mind. Until then, bust on, the process really really works!
A divorce has nothing to do with standing IMHO.
Glad it all is working out RL as far as the paperwork goes, heck with him out of the house you will find it much easier to move forward too! AND DETACH!
Some of them have been hostage at the other place, due to another handy fella. Grrrrr.