[quote=ScottCat] I think one difference I might suggest in the future is if you're going out again, ask her if she wants you to get a sitter or if she's OK watching the kids. Because this is going to be a hot button for her from now on.
Thats a good idea but, Im also thinking we make up a predetermined schedule and stick to that. She have her time, I have mine and we both know which days a which. I honestly dont know what to do.
On a side note, WAW wanted to split the checking as she thought I was spending too much. (which was not the case) So we discussed it in length first, then suggested having it in writing as well. So I wrote up an agreement which included splitting and closing of the account and splitting of the living expenses while she is still living there. I just sent her the email today.
That was so hard to do/send and feels sooooo strange. She called me on her lunch break and said she received it and most everything looked good to her and we can talk about it later. She seemed so cheerful and upbeat about the circumstance. Maybe it was just more Business like. She can be very structured and business like. Either way it was hard to press the send button when the time came. It really sunk in and feels like I have truly lost her.
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14
