Reaching out for support and advice 2

[bluesgal]

Thanks gals, my boundary is no OW. The problem with that is the only way I can confirm he is still seeing her is to snoop.

Not snooping feels like turning a blind eye.

I plan to tell him my boundaries at MC apt because historically conversations like these do not go well with H since BD.

Good points 3-I understand what you are saying. I am trying not to force anything or to teach him any lessons.

Toughest thing for me lately: That he can tell OW he loves her, pursue her, call/text her, crawl into her bed. And with me....crickets. It just doesn't feel good. My instinct is to push that away.