Reaching out for support and advice 2

[bluesgal]

I don't want to end my M. I just want some true space. I'm finding it difficult to tiptoe around his short temper. I'm finding it difficult to have zero trust.

I can't shake the feeling that he is cake eating. He gets to have all the creature comforts of home and also come/go as he pleases. I have GAL/PMA, but we seem to be getting more distant than ever. At least a few months ago we would share the same bed occas. and ML. Now-NOTHING.

We were at D15 BBall game together last night and he got very short tempered with me a couple of times over very minor things. He went from calm to very angry instantly. When we left I told him in the car that I would appreciate his patience if we have a misunderstanding. He seemed to agree.

Is there a disadvantage to actually physically separating?