I feel like I just want H gone. Out of the house. Out, out, out. I want space and time to think about sitch.

What does this mean. I know I'm not 'over' him. I just don't want the person he is. I don't even want to look at him anymore. I know-detach. I look at him and see a free loading cheater that has no moral compass. I want him out.

My plan is to tell him a MC apt on Monday. Someone stop me. Am I making a mistake?

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014