I started packing the house not long ago. Shes told friends she wasn't coming back here unless it was from her stuff. It hurts to see these things. And whichever direction we go it will have to be done. If we were to be together again it won't happen here. My ILs own the house and we lived here as part of the job I have. I was trying to get to the end of January before I made any big decisions, I want to be in a better emotional state.