Job sitch is a no brainer for me in all this now. Had an incredible talk with S12 last night. Real man to man, heartlfelt talk. If i stay where im at, he would have to choose between being with me and being with all his friends. Told me last night he thought I would be mad at him if he didn't come with me, but didn't want to leave his friends. (All things I already knew.)

If new job happens, I'll have so much more time with my boys and W if things ever work out. I'll have less stress in my day-to-day. I have less travel, less time and the rewarding knowledge that I did the best thing I could have done for myself and my family.

If W never makes it out of her fog and we cannot reconcile, then I will be closer to my boys in that scenario.


Both 40
T-22 M-18
S13
S11

Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13
EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13
EA #2-9/13/13

Moved out and Legally Separated 6/14

"Success is a journey, not a destination."