Journaling here

It has started to show that my lack of communication skills are my biggest problem. Since I have been posting here I have noticed that after I proof read my thoughts they sound good. But then when I get replies it shows me that if this is the way I am approaching things it could lead down the wrong path.

My issue is Once I read the replies and they do make sense. I look at what I wrote and how I wrote it and it is not exactly what I meant(or is it?). I notice that I use the word "need" way too much and probably don't have to. The word "want" may be more appropriate in some instances.

All this has helped me realized that if I cant communicate my thoughts to the board correctly. How am I supposed to do this with the W? Don't get me wrong she is no master communicator either but that doesn't matter. Its all in how I try to get things across when the opportunity presents itself that matters.

I have some work left to do but I feel that I can get better at communicating my thoughts to everyone not just the W eventually. Does anyone have any suggestions on things that might help me?


Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014