Ben,

I am glad to hear you are doing well. Your sitch is one where I really think - what is wrong with your W? I believe it's truly HER loss and while we both know there is no point in wondering or focusing on that, I do think she will be the one to regret this in the end.
Again - not your issue and not in your control...

Your growth has been amazing, your story inspirational and where you are today and where you continue to move in your life are a testament of someone who chose not to get beat by the challenges life throws at us.

Thank you for sharing - I feel renewed and motivated from reading your update. I hope you stick around - your insight is of great help to others here and we'd love to read now about the great new adventures that life has in store for you in this new phase.

((((((LITB))))))


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D