I would have been hurt MAJOR by a name-change so I understand....perhaps it is a guy-thing!
Take this up with L - take it all up with L and get those boundaries settled. She will continue IMHO!
I know you are holding back compared to earlier on but - again only my opinion - you need to back out totally. I can see that her crazy statements about OW doesnt bite. React the same way to all the others and if she demands an answer then "I will think about it!"
I had a good chat with L yesterday which I will post in a bit.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
