I never said just because spouse leaves means they go through MLC.. Yes, my H has an alcohol problem and is working to that. No I have not been to al-anon but I have gone to counseling for it. We have not been to couples recovery program. H will not go to counceling. We went before and he didn't like it. Yes, my H is definitely done he says and I'm close. I will keep on with my life but the door will always easy open for change.
Definitely something has to done about the drinking and I hope he will continue on that path.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.