Another update.... H has decided to be more distant than in previous days. I don't know why? The kids are going to grandmas house Fri and I kind of thought we'd get dinner, hang out - because that would be a normal Friday. He told me he's going drinking with friends.... Also Didn't ask me to watch TV with him when he got home from the gym tonight.
I just asked him if he's upset with me or something and he said "I don't need this shxt! Hovering over me, getting all heavy... "
And I said, "I'm just wondering why you are being more distant than previous days and don't want to hang out with me this weekend..." He said "I just want to be alone and do my own shxt!"
He also told me I should "get out, go out with friends".
As I said previously, up and down, depending on the day...
I'm sure this was completely NOT along the lines of DB or DR protocol!
Me, 39. H, 35. 3 boys - 13, 11, 9 - 1 w/ multiple disabilities BD Dec 2012 Sort of a quasi in-house sep Nov 2013
