Ha! I don't owe her, but I enabled her spending habits to the point I spend $700 a month on debts!!! I'm currently waiting to see whether my bonus and raise due in March will make things liveable otherwise I sell the house.
The only reason I haven't demanded it be sold yet is that the kids still feel attached…you have no idea how nuts I wanna go. I wanna go on a few holidays and get a few of those things I've always wanted (nice watch and a sick Jeep).
Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.