Listen...here are some basic DB 101 tenets you'll need to go by going forward:
1) No pressuring W in any shape, form or manner 2) Stop talking to the ILs about W. It just muddies the waters unnecessarily 3) Do come here to post draft emails, texts for feedback BEFORE you send them. Not because you can't do it. It is because you are new to all of this and we vets can help you avoid some pitfalls along the way. This is until you become quite adept at it.
Always ask yourself this question:
Will this action, behavior, words bring me closer to my goal?
Your W unwittingly gave you a wrapped gift when she sent you that text. She is appealing for your support and attention. So grab it and show her the awesome BH! Be sure to that what you do does not fall into the rescue or fix it category. See the difference?
