Actually KML, in my case the OM did break a vow or two. The OM is a senior police detective in our community (Married too). They met when he was on duty and my ExW's bank was held up. the armed robber was never caught. He vowed to serve and protect me my children and all the community, not play a part in destroying them. When you really think about it, his role is to prevent crime. Well, statistically speaking divorce and broken homes are directly linked to crime. So really, who is he serving and protecting on my tax dollar with his oath? No, I do not forgive him and never will. He is a nothing to me at the same time so I do have some indifference and he will never affect me again as my exW and family are not his only prey. He has a habit of this behaviour. He has issues of his own.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
