Thanks again Wonka. So back to the occasional text....maybe once a month? I have only asked W once about the OW, that was back in Jun/Jul and I didn't get an answer, just an email stating a lot of reasons two people living together should not be viewed as a couple. I have not, nor will ask again.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.