Thanks Barb. I will not allow myself to be abused again. Yes, men can be abused. Took me a long time to admit that. The love and support given me by family, friends (mutual and otherwise) that witnessed the behaviour is a blessing. Sorry to invade thread, but it is a good topic.

M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.