Wonka. You say mirror the wife in texts. So if I don't get any texts at all, my mirror is to not send any to her? If a text is sent with regards to the legal side of things, just send a legal reply back?
What I meant by mirroring things back to W, HWA, is staying with the subject at hand and keeping your texts short if they are short. When Ms. Wonka said HNY, I responded accordingly. See?
Originally Posted By: hotwheelsaust
This is where I struggle, when she doesn't initiate anything. Is my only option to just wait it out?
That is okay. Ms. Wonka didn't initiate anything for the longest time. It was all on me and I can tell you that it was tiring at first. But I kept right at it until the wall started to crumble. Because my texts were short, upbeat, and friendly because I stuck with innocuous and safe topics. Now it is natural and flowing between us since Ms. Wonka has started to initiate more and more of the texts.
