For me, personally, I agree with you and I think it is selfish and I would not want to stay married under those circumstances. I do feel that if Tea wants to, that's his choice. That is why I asked why he stays, his response makes me feel he is ok with it and still enjoying his M. Although, that wasn't what I took from his other posts. Am I making sense or talking in circles?
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
