What regrets do you have for your behavior that led to this A? While it was ultimately her choice, do not for one minute believe that you did not play a role in that choice. Treating your spouse horribly for years also crosses the boundaries. We can respectfully agree to disagree on this one.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13