This isn't the first time you've made the "spreading her/your legs" comment. It is a reflection of your own deep-seated anger towards W and it is coming across as misogynistic. You might want to recognize this pattern and work through it. By making this type of comment, you are making EAs/PAs far too simplistic in distilling all of of the complex emotions into "spreading her legs." It is quite offensive and sexist. And you display utter and complete disdain toward your W with this comment.
