TTD180, your message come through while writing a reply to Wonka.
Yes as much as I don't want to do the paperwork, commonsense tells me it is important for both of us to have this done. I meet with solicitor next week for my part of this. I don't know about the return text, I agree with Wonka on that one, it would look and sound very weird. Same goes with regards to staying friends for the boys, again she doesn't want to even talk about them. Remember no talking/texting about sons 21st or his engagement. Even when I texted with the Happy New Year message, her reply was ask son what he wants.
Wonka. You say mirror the wife in texts. So if I don't get any texts at all, my mirror is to not send any to her? If a text is sent with regards to the legal side of things, just send a legal reply back? This is where I struggle, when she doesn't initiate anything. Is my only option to just wait it out?
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
