Me 14 months on, affair confirmed, someone new?

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You are so right TTD180, I am confused as well. I felt I was ready to move on, date, take the wedding ring off etc. Still don't feel the need to put the ring on again.
Mostly it was about the way son was talking about the W, it just made me feel that she was going back ever so slightly to her old self. I just thought I needed to take the chance/risk of seeing/talking to her before going back to the country.
It was that one moment that I felt a chance to say what I felt still.
Maybe it was that last moment, before I let go of the rope. As when she goes home to the country today, we are now separated by 1000kms. Maybe now I can let go off the rope properly.