Hi HWA, Looking it from your W's prospective, you've not spoken to your W for months and then out of the blue you ask her out for a coffee. I think I would respond the same, I would want to know why as well. I would be very suspicious as well, even though it is just a coffee date. I really don't know what I would've done, I suppose I wouldn't have sent the text in the first place. This has confused me now, you say you're moving on and want to date other women, but you're continuing to stand for your M. Standing for your M, as you know, means staying faithful to your W and wearing your wedding ring. The way you responded to your W gives the impression that you've not moved on and are still holding the rope. Let the rope go now and see how much freer you feel If your W wants to R at a later date, then that is her choice and you may or may not still want her back.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
If your W wants to R at a later date, then that is her choice and you may or may not still want her back.