See now your W is not just walking out on you - she is (according to the text) walking out on her family. Does this give you a clearer picture of how determined she is? Who do you think she will blame for loosing her family?
Do you by the text W send you think that your MIL knows how to talk to W and do you expect MIL to sort out this for you?
She is feeling pressure and hurt and she will try to get away from this. The only way she sees right now is away from you and now also MIL so she will run - WASes run fast!
AND: If you and/or MIL succeeds in putting pressure on her so she stays - how secure will you feel in an R with her in the days and weeks to come?
(I am sorry if I come out harsh in any way!!! - I am just trying to paint a picture for you!)
Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
