I can understand how you are feeling and considering D. I would hold off on contacting a lawyer till you do some research first. In my state the state court system has a do it yourself divorce guide with all forms required. If you decide to go the D route and can at least get you W to consider working through it with you, you will save a ton of money.
In my situation, wife filed and then moved out with kids. She got a lot of bad advice from her family and lawyer. Her family has had a lot of bad divorces and based on her families advice I can tell why. The long and short is my W ran out of money to pay her lawyer and had to pull the D from the court or she would have owed much more. Combined it cost us $14,000.00 and she did not get her D. I had told her at the beginning that we should slow down and try not to involve the lawyers.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"
