BF thank you. I too am happy and sad at the same time. I dont know how to be almost. If h is really ending it with OW - is this significant? Should I do something different as a result? Should I do something different after his very noticeable change after this trip?
My kids both cried last night for H. I felt it almost came out of no where. In my head I was actually thinking that we were all doing pretty well coming back. It seemed easier than the past for the kids. Then last night after I said good night I went back into the room and found them both crying for h. Ugh. A small part of me wanted to say 'forget him!' .... Anyway, I spoke with them, they told me how they felt. I validated. They asked me to send H their feelings. I did. H responded saying he loves them and wil talk to them later.
He hasn't.
Is fine. When he called they were playing with friends. They didn't want to talk to him.
Have some interaction with h. He tells me where he is and who he is seeing. I don't ask. Is this good? Want to keep this slow momentum with h especially for the kids and has been better for me and him too. How to do that? Will continue to do my best for my kids and be a positive role model
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
