You were bold and took that big leap of faith... and I am so happy it appears that in the end he was willing to reach out and catch you. At least as much as he is able to at the moment.
I am so happy for you and sending you happy, excited hugs and so many positive thoughts that your journey with your H continues in this great direction.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."