2old, no need to be sorry, it's not your fault. It is just another one of those things as LBS that can affect us. Sandi is right, but how we deal or work around that type of comment, is only up to us.
Some of us will take it to heart straight away and forget the WAS, some will think about it and feel very hurt for a long time. Some of us will read/listen to it, understand it's implications, know we should do one or the other with it, but simply cannot do anything about it.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.